A sigh of relief, I think.
Well, I spent the weekend, not mulling over the fact that my son told me that he was going to Sweden for his mothers birthday, and the fact that I had spoke to her a few times and she said nothing about it.
When I dropped him off, that was when she told me. She said that she was going to go to for her birthday but she didnt have a definate date. She said she would be there for 2 to 3 weeks. I specifically asked her if she was coming back and she said yes. She also added that if/when she moved to Sweden, it would be on the level, through the courts.
Right now, I am at peace with it, however I had a nice dose of parental "advice". A continuation of their belief that she will not come back. And they proceeded to go into graphic detail of how it could be done. My mom even told me what she would do.
That being said, I did tell them that really, there is not a whole lot that can be done. I have to trust her that she is going to come back. I have to have faith that He is in control of this situation. I have to have faith that His will is in line with mine in the fact that I want to be there as a father to James.
And, I do have faith. I know that what ever happens He will be there to hold me. I truly believe, however, that if she does call, when in Sweden and says "Im not coming back" that the courts would be able to do something. Maybe I am being nieve, but I have to believe in justice. I have to believe that He wants me to be James's father and not someone else.
If I dont, I will end up going certifiably insane. (Not really certifiably but you know....) So, yeah.
So, it is a sigh of relief, sort of....
When I dropped him off, that was when she told me. She said that she was going to go to for her birthday but she didnt have a definate date. She said she would be there for 2 to 3 weeks. I specifically asked her if she was coming back and she said yes. She also added that if/when she moved to Sweden, it would be on the level, through the courts.
Right now, I am at peace with it, however I had a nice dose of parental "advice". A continuation of their belief that she will not come back. And they proceeded to go into graphic detail of how it could be done. My mom even told me what she would do.
That being said, I did tell them that really, there is not a whole lot that can be done. I have to trust her that she is going to come back. I have to have faith that He is in control of this situation. I have to have faith that His will is in line with mine in the fact that I want to be there as a father to James.
And, I do have faith. I know that what ever happens He will be there to hold me. I truly believe, however, that if she does call, when in Sweden and says "Im not coming back" that the courts would be able to do something. Maybe I am being nieve, but I have to believe in justice. I have to believe that He wants me to be James's father and not someone else.
If I dont, I will end up going certifiably insane. (Not really certifiably but you know....) So, yeah.
So, it is a sigh of relief, sort of....
posted by The Dog at 9:21 PM
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